Tuesday 23 March 2021

THE MOVING STORY OF NESTS

T.N.Seshan and his wife learnt a valuable lesson

▪In a management seminar once T. N. Seshan shared t hat while travelling in Uttar Pradesh with his wife, when he was the Chief Election Commissioner, they saw a large mango plantation filled with sparrow nests.

Seshan's wife decided to carry two nests home.

The police escort called a young boy who was grazing cows and asked him to bring down two nests and offered to pay him Rs 10.

▪He refused as Seshan raised the offer to Rs 50.The boy told Seshan and his wife :

*Sahibji, I will not do it for whatever you will give.*

*Inside these nests are baby sparrows; if I give those nests to you, in the evening, when the mother sparrow returns with food for the babies and does not find them there, she will cry.*

*I do not have the heart to  see that.*

*▪* Seshan and his wife were taken aback and *felt small*.

Seshan later recounted :

*My position and the IAS label* melted away in front of that *little boy.*

*I stood in front of him feeling as small as a  mustard seed.*

After returning home,this incident continued to haunt me with guilt for days.

Education, position or social status are never a yardstick for the measure of humanity.


                   *Don't Forget*

      ```▪Knowledge is to```

            ```know nature.```


     ```▪We don't achieve```

            ```anything by```

         ```gathering a lot```

         ```of information.```


    ```▪Life becomes```

     ``` blissful when you```

        ```have knowledge,```

       ```sense and wisdom```


                _Reproduced from_

        ```The Speaking Tree`

Monday 22 March 2021

LIFE IS NOT FAIR & EASY ON ANYBODY!!!

 In Mahabharat, Karna asks Lord Krishna - "My mother left me the moment I was born. Is it my fault I was born an illegitimate child?


I did not get the education from Dhronacharya.


Parsuraam taught me but then gave me the curse to forget everything when he came to know I was  Son of Kunthi  and belong to Kshatriya clan.


A cow was accidentally hit by my arrow & its owner cursed me for no fault of mine.


I was disgraced in Draupadi's Swayamvar.


Even Kunthi finally told me the truth only to save her other sons.


Whatever I received was through Duryodhana's charity.


So how am I wrong in taking his side ???"


**Lord Krishna replies, "Karna, I was born in a jail.


Death was waiting for me even before my birth.


The night I was born I was separated from my birth parents.


From childhood, you grew up hearing the noise of swords, chariots, horses, bow, and arrows. But multiple attempts on my life were made even before I could walk!


No Army, No Education. I could hear people saying I am the reason for all their problems.


When all of you were being appreciated for your valour by your teachers I had not even received any education. I joined Gurukula of Rishi Sandipani only at the age of 16!


You are married to a girl of your choice. I didn't get the girl I loved & rather ended up marrying those who wanted me or the ones I rescued from demons.


I had to move my whole community from the banks of Yamuna to far off Sea shore to save them from Jarasandh. I was called a coward for running away!!


If Duryodhana wins the war you will get a lot of credit. What do I get if Dharmaraja wins the war? Only the blame for the war and all related problems.


Remember one thing, Karna. Everybody has to face Challenges in life.


Remember this always!!!


LIFE IS NOT FAIR & EASY ON ANYBODY!!!


But what is Right (Dharma) is known to your Mind (conscience). No matter how much unfairness we got, how many times we were Disgraced, how many times we Fall, what is important is how you REACTED at that time.


Life's unfairness does not give us the license to walk on the wrong path.


Always remember, Life may be tough at few points, but DESTINY is not created by the SHOES we wear but by the STEPS we take!!!

Saturday 20 March 2021

He is the owner

 What a nice story to share....

An American man walked into a restaurant in

London. As soon as he entered, he noticed an

African man sitting in the corner.

So he walked over to the counter, removed his

wallet and shouted, "Waiter! I am buying food for

everyone in this restaurant, except that black

African guy over there!"

So the waiter collected the money from the man

and began serving free food to everyone in the

restaurant, except the African.

However,insteadof becoming upset, the African

simply looked up at the American and

shouted, "Thank you!" That infuriated the man.

So once again, the American took out his wallet

and shouted, "Waiter! This time I am buying

bottles of wine and additional food for everyone

in this bar, except for that African sitting in the

corner over there!" So the waiter collected the

money from the man and began serving free

food and wine to

everyone in the bar except the African.

When the waiter finished serving the food and

drinks, once again, instead of becoming angry,

the African simply smiled at the American man

and shouted, "Thank you!"

That made the American man furious. So he

leaned over on the counter and said to the

waiter, "What is wrong with that African man? I

have bought food and drinks for everyone in this

bar except him, but instead of becoming angry,

he just sits there and smiles at me and shouts

'Thank you.' Is he

mad???"

The waiter smiled at the American and said, "No,

he is not mad. He is the owner of this

restaurant.

May your enemies work unknowingly in your

favour.

πŸ’¬ Stay away from Anger..It hurts ..Only You!

πŸ’¬ If you are right then there is no need to get

angry,

πŸ’¬ And if you are wrong then you don't have

any right to get angry.

πŸ’¬ Patience with family is love,

πŸ’¬ Patience with others is respect.

πŸ’¬ Patience with self is confidence and

Patience with GOD is faith.

πŸ’¬ Never Think Hard about thePAST, It brings

Tears...

πŸ’¬ Don't think more about the FUTURE, It

brings Fear...

πŸ’¬ Live this Moment with a Smile,It brings

Cheer.

πŸ’¬Every test in our life makes us bitter or

better,

πŸ’¬ Every problem comes to make us or break

us,

πŸ’¬ The choice is ours whether we become

victims or victorious.

πŸ’¬ Beautiful things are not always good but

good things are always beautiful

πŸ’¬ Do you know why God created gaps

between fingers?

πŸ’¬ So that someone who is special to you

comes and fills those gaps by holding your hand

forever.

πŸ’¬ Happiness keeps You Sweet..But being

sweet brings happiness.

Keep safe... 


Blessings in abundant always...

Sunday 14 March 2021

The story of stanford university

 A lady in a faded grey dress and her husband dressed in a home made suit walked in timidly without an appointment into the Harvard University President's outer office.

The secretary could tell in a moment that such backwoods individuals had no business at Harvard and probably did not even deserve to be in Harvard.

"We want to see the President" the man said softly. "He will be busy all day" the lady secretary snapped. "We will wait" the lady replied.

For hours the secretary ignored them hoping that the couple would finally become discouraged and go away. They did not and the secretary grew frustrated and finally decided to disturb the president.

"Maybe if you see them for a few minutes, they will leave" she said to him. The president. stern faced and with dignity strutted towards the couple.

The lady told him "We had a son who attended Harvard for one year. He loved Harvard. He was happy here. But about a year ago he was accidentally killed. My husband & I would like to erect a memorial for him, somewhere on the campus".

The president was not touched, in fact he was shocked. "Madam" he said gruffly "We cannot put up a statue for every person who attended Harvard and died. If we did, this place would look like a cemetery".

"Oh No..No.." the lady explained quickly. "We do not want to erect a statue. We thought we would like to give a building to your Harvard in his fond memory".

The president rolled his eyes. He glanced at the lady's dress and man's suit and then exclaimed: "A Building?" 

Do you have any earthly idea how much a building costs? We have over seven and a half million dollars in the physical buildings here at Harvard. For a moment the lady was silent. The president was pleased. Maybe he could get rid of them now.

The lady turned to her husband and said quietly "Is that all it costs to start a University? Why don't we just start our own?" Her husband nodded. The president's face wilted in confusion and bewilderment.

Mr. & Mrs. Leland & Jane Stanford got up and walked away, travelling to Paolo Alto, California where they established the University that bears their name: Stanford University - a memorial to a son that Harvard no longer cared about.

Most of the time we judge people by their outer appearance which can be misleading. And in the impression, we tend to treat people badly by thinking they can do nothing for us. Thus we tend to lose out potential good friends, employees or customers.

Though, it may not be convenient for you, do your best to always be supportive. Especially to your friends even if you think they can't offer you anything. 

Arrogance is a killer of friendship .... a soft word turns away wrath!   Humility is a virtue, so, please continue with it. 

 83 Noble prize winners till now are from this University  !!!

DON'T BLAME WITHOUT KNOWING FACTS


Once there was a king who regularly distributed food to the brahmanas.

One day, as he was giving out food to the priests, an eagle flew above holding a dead snake in his claws. Out of the mouth of the dead snake fell a drop of poison inDON'T BLAME WITHOUT KNOWING FACTSto the food of one of the Brahmin.


No one knew or saw that this had happened, so the king continued distributing the food.


The Brahmin who accidentally got the poisoned food from king died, and the king was feeling very sad  about it.


One of the servants of Yamaraj (the god of death) who has the duty  to distribute karma to the living beings had a problem. When this incident with the king and the poisoned food happened, he didn't know whom to blame for the death of the Brahmin, and hence he did not know who to give the karma to.


After all, it was not the eagle’s fault that it carried the dead snake in its claws (since this was its food), nor was it the dead snake's fault, nor was it the king’s fault because he did not know that the poison fell into the food.


However, one day, a  few  brahmanas entered the kingdom in order to meet the king.


A lady was sitting next to the road and they asked her: “Do you know where the king’s palace is and how we can get there?”


She said: “Yes,” and pointed at the right direction. “But, be very careful,” she said, “the king is known to kill brahmanas!”


The moment she said that and criticized the king unrightfully, that moment the servant of Yamaraj had decided. He gave her the karma of causing the death brahmana!


Moral of the story: 

If  you criticize someone and you are not right about their deeds, then you get 100% of their karma.


This story can inspire us to be careful about what we think or say about other people without knowing the truth.

Wednesday 10 March 2021

Know your value

 A father said to his daughter, “You have graduated with honors, here is a car I bought many years ago. It is pretty old now. But before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them I want to sell it and see how much they offer you for it.”


The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father, and said, “They offered me $1,000 because they said it looks pretty worn out.”


The father said, now “Take it to the pawnshop.” The daughter went to the pawnshop, returned to her father, and said, ”The pawnshop offered only $100 because it is an old car.”


The father asked his daughter to go to a car club now and show them the car. The daughter then took the car to the club, returned, and told her father,” Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it because it’s a Nissan Skyline R34, it's an iconic car and sought by many collectors”


Now the father said this to his daughter, “The right place values you the right way. If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you. Never stay in a place where no one sees your value." #knowyourworth #becomeunstoppable

Tuesday 2 March 2021

When god orders even the devil obeys

 A very poor woman with a small family called-in to a radio station asking for help from God. 

A non-believer man who was also listening to this radio program decided to make fun of the woman. 

He got her address, called his secretary and ordered her to buy a large amount of foodstuffs and take to the woman. 

However, he sent it with the following instruction: "When the woman asks who sent the food, tell her that its from the devil.'' 

When the secretary arrived at the woman's house, the woman was so happy and grateful for the help that had been received. She started putting the food inside her small house. 

The Secretary then asked her, ''Don't you want to know who sent the food?'' 

The woman replied, ''No, Say thanks to whomever sent ths! I don't care who the person is because when GOD orders, even the devil obeys!

WORRIES END  Where FAITH BEGINS..