Wednesday 28 November 2012

Father and 'The Son'

That old man had a heart attack.He was lying on the hospital bed.The chances of him surviving was very less owing to the severity of the attack.There seemed to be nobody from his family side.He was murmuring ,"Son,Son", in his half conscious state.

Nurse who was taking care of him thought of bringing her son to him as he didnt have much time.She came out of the ward and saw a young man standing,staring at the ward door,looking worried.

She went to him said,"Why did you come so late?Your father has been yearning to see you.He doesnt have much time.He needs you.Come,come,lets go."

She dragged the young man by his arms to the old man and whispered in his ears,"See,your son has come".

The old man opened his eyes slowly.His face lit up and tears rolled from the corner of his eyes as he saw the young man.The old man put his right hand forward as if wanting to hold the hands of the young man.The youngman smiled,came forward and held his hands affectionately.As they looked at each other,it seemd a silent conversation was taking place.

The young man sat beside the old man and held his hands all night long,listened to the old man when he was trying to talk with lots of difficulty.After a long time,the old man said with shaking voice,"Son,i have longed to hold your hands like this always in my life.But you left us for a silly reason.I havent held anything like this ever with so much love."

The young man had tears in his eyes,as he listened and watched the old man silently.By dawn the old man had breathed his last.The young man looked out for the nurse and informed her about the death.

She responded with a sad tone,"Oh! This is terrible.He looked so hopeful after you came.But please dont take it into heart.We cant fight death".

The young man sighed and said,"Yeah you are right.But can you please tell me who was that person?"

The nurse was puzzled and for a moment thought maybe his father's death had left him out of spin.She said,"Young man,please console yourselves.Why are you saying things like this? The dead man is your father.Isn't it?"

He replied,"No madam,I genuinely dont know who that man is.I AM NOT HIS SON."

She asked him in a state of shock and dibelief over her foolishness,"Then,why didn't you let me know that in the first place when i took you to him.You were standing outside the ward worried.I thought you were his son!"

He responded,"Its ok madam.I had come here to visit someone else and i was just standing outside thinking about my friend.You didnt let me give an explaination and just dragged me to him.When i saw the old man my heart went out for him.He was sure to die but it seemd was longing to see his son because he was not even in a position to recognize that i was not his son,when i stood in front of him.All night he tried to convey how much he loved his son ;and how he had left him and his wife over a trivial matter.He also had lost his wife it seems.His last wish,it seemed was to see his son a last time.Since he was about to die,i didnt wanna break his heart letting him know i wasnt his son.I LET THE OLD MAN DIE PEACEFULLY THINKING HE HAD MET HIS SON."



Friday 23 November 2012

The Unsung Hero

Fleming was a poor farmer from Scotland.One day,Fleming heard a small boy's cry when he was working at his fields.Immediately he went there.Not caring for his life,he saved the life of a boy who had fallen into the swap nearby and was drowning.
Next day itself, a beautiful horse chariot came and stopped in front of Fleming's home.A rich man stepped out of it and introduced himself .He said sincerely,"Yesterday you saved the life of my son.I have come to repay your help".
Fleming replied,"I have just done my duty and i dont expect anything back".
The richman was impressed by this and expressed his honest desire to help him in any way possible and said,"If that is the case,leave your child to me.His upbringing will be my responsibility.I will guide him along with my son and make him a successful person in life".
As years passed,the boy was given best education by the rich man along with his son.The boy took a medicine degree from London Medical College and became world famous for one of his invention.The boy was none other than the inventor of pencillin,Alexander Fleming.The rich man's son too was on his way to became world famous.
One time the rich man's son was about to die,suffering from Pneumonia.Alexander Fleming saved the life of the rich man's son using his invention pencillin.
That rich man was Lord Randolph Churchill and his son who was saved by Fleming's father as a boy and later got cured by Alexander Fleming was one of the world's greatest leader and philosopher Winston Churchill!

Folks,A Father figure/a father who gives the best guidance can change life.Mr.Randolph Churchill is an unsung hero because he,with right guidance and upbringing has contributed two great personalities to the world,who have been a gift to mankind.He must have been a really great Father/Fatherfigure.

p.s: Kindly dont confuse Winston Churchill's father and son. Both had the same names.click this link to know
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lord_Randolph_Churchill
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randolph_Churchill

Sunday 18 November 2012

Learn to go beyond intellect

A yogi and his disciple [two travelling monks] walked from one village to another.Yogi would share his wisdom with the villagers,while villagers would offer them food and shelter.

One day they stopped at a village where folks harassed them and kicked them out.Disciple was surprised, as he had not seen this kind of (mis)behaviour.After rushing out of the village,yogi blessed the villagers with prosperity and safety of the entire village.Disciple was not very happy.

They both were very recieved very respectfully at the next village.People were very eager to serve them.They didn't let them leave for more than a week.After leaving this village,the yogi prayed that the village be destroyed.Disciple was now very upset.
This was obviously unfair.Disciple questioned his teacher.Yogi replied,"It's in the best interest of our planet that self centered people stay where they are.It would be nice to see wise people spread all over the world.They will carry their culture and wisdom with them.Our world will be a better place."

moral-Learn to go beyond the intellect.Look for the meaning beyond obvious.

courtesy: mail from fellow blogger and respected mentor K.Parthasarathi sir of www.kparthas.blogspot.com

Friday 2 November 2012

The three statues

Long ago there lived a king.It so happened that the king always was having issues with almost all the neighbour kingdoms about one thing or the other.The root cause of the problems were the king's friends who used to create misunderstandings by gossiping and spreading lies about other kings.
A neighbour king,who had fallen prey to the king's friends' lies and was attacked unnecessarily all the time,wanted to make the king understand this.He decided to send his messenger.He arrived at the king's court and bowed to the king.
He said,"My king sends his regards and would like you to have this gift".
The king took the box and opened it.Inside he saw three beautiful statues that all looked the same.
The messenger said,"Your majesty,my king has instructed me to tell you that even though the statues look alike,they are different.My king wishes you to choose one of the three and return the others".
Everyone around the king became curious.The prime minister looked at the statues and scratched his head in wonder.The king studied them all again but was unable to decide how the statues were different.
He said to the messenger,"There must be some hidden meaning that i am not able to see right now.I need some more time.Please leave the statues here and come back tomorrow".
The king had a young son who was very clever.The king called him to his court and said,"There are three lovely statues in this box.I have to choose one and send the others back,See if you can find any difference between them".
For a long time the prince did many tests comparing the statues.Finally an idea flashed in his mind.He put the three statues in a bowl of water.His face lit up as he watched small bubbles rise in the water.He ran to the father's court.
Everyone eagerly watched him as he entered the hall.The prince picked up one of the statues and passed a long slender needle through one ear and it came the other side.
He said,"Some people listen to a thing with one ear and let it go out the other.That kind of friend doesnt really listen to another friend's problems.The message is you shouldnt be friends with such people'.
The prince picked the second statue and passed a needle through its ear.This time the needle came out of the mouth.
He said,"Some people listen to a thing and soon tell it to others.Such people are very hard to trust.The message is that such people dont make good friends'.
The prince picked the third statue and passed a needle through its ear.This time the needle went in but its end did not come out at all.
He said,"Some people listen to a thing and keep it to themselves.The message is that this kind of people make best kind of friends".
Soon the king understood that the neighbour king was indicating something regarding his friends and made up his mind to cross check his friends.He appreciated his son for solving the puzzle and rewarded him suitably.
When the messenger arrived to know what statue was king's choice,the king told him that he would want to keep all of them as a reminder about the message his good neighbour was trying to send.He also assured that from then on,there would be no issues with the neighbour's kingdom.The king as a token of gratitude sent lot of gifts and valuables to the neighbour king with a message that they would be friends forever.


[p.s: have you had such friends who listen to everything about you-good and ugly through best and worst phases and yet keep it to themselves? Me being the same kind of person,has attracted such people among the 'very few friends' in life.Not even once have they brought dishonour to my dignity.So i dedicate this story to all those friends-Manjunath,Harini,Annu,Navya and Pavan, to remind them that they are the best kind of friend anyone in the world can have.I got so many of them.So i consider myselves lucky.Thanks for choosing me to be your friend :-)]